How do you forget him? How do you keep yourself from dialing his number? You know you shouldn’t, but how do you fight that urge? Some say “trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you have never met”. This is true. You cannot forget him but you can get over him. There are many things you can do to heal a broken heart! Let me share my research result.
Cry out everything you have to cry about!
When we get hurt, it's normal to cry. Don't ever think you're being weak for crying and don't feel embarrassed because of it! When you cry, you let go of part of your anger and hurt so you can feel less heavy. You can lock yourself in a room, if you want to, and put on some sad music...but let yourself feel the pain and cry so you can let it go.
When you're trying to get someone out of your head, you need to put other things inside of it. you just need to get distracted. Go to a movie, watch a play, travel. It doesn't matter what are you going to do--the important thing is to find something to do. If your mind is busy, it doesn't have time or space to think about the person you're trying to forget.
Spend some time with your friends.
Friends are always great to have in this kind of situation! Friends can make you feel good about yourself and get you distracted very easily. They will certainly make you laugh and make you see that you're way more important than you think! The only warning is: Ask them not to talk about the person you're trying to forget.
Avoid the person!
Try not to go to places you know you can meet that person. When you're trying to forget someone and you two keep seeing each other, it gets hard to get over it. If you meet him/her somewhere, just be nice and kind, but find an excuse to go away as fast as you can!
Go out and see some different faces!
Being at home gives you more time to think about it, which makes the process even more difficult. So even if you're not feeling excited or you're in a bad mood, just put on your best clothes, best shoes, best smile, call some friends and go somewhere nice where you can dance, drink, listen to music.
Avoid every kind of romantic thing!
If you're trying to forget someone, you'd better not watch romantic movies or listen to romantic songs...it makes you feel bad and you will certainly remember the person you're trying to get rid of. It doesn't matter if it's a song you love or if it's playing on the radio...just change the station or do something else!
Take good care of yourself.
Women tend to run for some kind of self-destruction when they're hurt. If we break up our perfect relationship, then we have no reason to get our nails done anymore and the only thing that gives us comfort is chocolate and sugar. That way, the only thing we do is to become less attractive and lessen our self-confidence. So if you're hurt, just try to use your pain for yourself instead of against you. Go to the gym, work out a lot, get your nails and hair done...do whatever you can so you can feel more pretty and confident!
Accept the process!
You can be really strong and it's still going to hurt. The process takes time and you have to accept that! You can't hope to forget in 2 days someone you loved for 2 years...and you can't pretend to be strong if you feel like crying. Just face your pain and accept that it's not easy and it's going to take some time. Well, of course, forgetting someone is not easy to do nor is it easily explained in just 8 steps. But there are some things that make the process a lot smoother.
Some women do this and others spit on this. What side are you on?
A first date is time to know the person. However, women define knowing people in different ways, I may want to know about your childhood, another may want to know about you sexual stamina. Its all knowledge right?
Guy One: Some relationships that started with sex on the first date are made for life. I quote him ‘I loved the sex and couldn’t wait to have it again, this gave me a chance to get to know her because after sex, there was no room for shyness, we could talk and laugh about anything, I knew I wanted to be with her’
Lady One: Things you should do on your first date include talking about the school he went to, his family, what his childhood was like, what he wants his future to be like and sex shouldn’t be one of them, because face it, if the sex is great and you guys have nothing in common, nothing to talk about, then there is no future.
Guy Two: Sex on the first date makes a lady seem loose and no guy wants a future with a loose woman. The ladies I have had sex with on the first date, I have had to make up some excuse to never call or see them again. Ladies, one advice, keep it locked down.
Lady Two: Sex is okay on the first date if things lead there. Sex does not spoil a relationship. If it was not meant to be then it was not meant to be. Sex didn’t make it not meant to be, if you get me.